You could get your charge changed to one with no or fewer driver's license points and you can do it online rather than going to court.
It's not. There's a real judge and law enforcement officer on the other side, making decisions about your case based on the same criteria they would if you went to court. It just takes place through this website.
Everyone makes mistakes. If you have a good driving record, the judge and police officer may be willing to give you a lesser charge that does not add points to your license.